Does size matter when it comes to a tight squeeze? Many men may think since women can have babies and stretch to make room for the baby coming out that going in is a breeze. Yet that is not the case the wrong stroke can cause a tear and make it even more painful for the woman to enjoy sex. Should you encounter a woman that is “too tight” have plenty of lubrication on stand-by as well as lubricating her yourself. There is nothing worse than trying to slide in a dry spot the friction is frustrating for both you and her.
Selfish lovers are not permitted in this space at all. If you cannot get her wet then you might as well forget…about it. Imagine the discomfort she feels when your selfish ass tries to slide it in forcefully since it does not go in with ease. Have some sympathy for a girl. Some women are not made to take heavy poking and prodding. There is nothing more sexy than a patient man. One who will ease you into things especially when you suffer with a spot that is too tight. It is a gift and a curse. Granted it makes for a snug fit around you men but just getting the head in can be difficult at best it is like her first time everytime you slide it in.
Ladies who have this problem do not even do kegals or need the like a virgin gel every time he slides out it is like you tighten up and are a virgin all over again. Virgin tight as men like to call it. This can be frustrating for both sexes. Especially, women how can you enjoy sex when you meet the idea of him inside you with extreme trepidation. Sex is supposed to relax your body not tense it up. Now men I have explained to you that a woman needs you to keep her lubricated this is where KY jelly and your own lubricant your tongue comes into play. Take your time with her and make sure she is nice and comfortable before you try to slide in.
Ladies you can help by maybe masturbating before hand have some lubricant on hand and play with it and if you have a vibrator or dildo use that to loosen it up ease the vibrator or dildo into you and gently tug it around a little before sex. You can also try this when practicing alone during me time. Ladies we cannot be selfish either when it comes to this problem often this problem will cause a man to ejaculate sooner than either of you expect or turn him off by making him feel like he is taking it from you. Loosen your legs and walls beforehand. Work with the man.
Now let me inform you medically speaking there is no such thing as too tight because a when woman becomes sexually aroused during sex, her vagina becomes wet and opens up to ease penetration. Thanks to the accordion-style folds of skin in its wall, any woman’s vagina can accommodate any size penis, no matter how large. That is why lubrication is key. If she is too tight, make it right by using a lube be it from you or the store.
Have you ever experience a woman that was too tight? How did you tackle this issue? Did it turn you off or did you you proceed with patience? Ladies how do you help your man when he encounters your tight squeeze? Share your thoughts below.