Making Moves

Battle of the Sexes: Who should make the first move the guy or the girl? You see a sexy guy you are having a conversation with a nice vibe to match. How do you two decide who makes the first move by setting up the first date?

So I was in a corner store when this sexy guy comes in I strike up the conversation regarding the bananas his is holding. he told me how he is making banana nut bread. Of course I thought a man in the kitchen is a sexy place for us to be. Yet I could not go in for the kill so I just walked away.

I was at a pizza shop and here comes my sexy chef I started the convo once again and of course as scary as Iam I allowed him to walk away once again. I think part of it is I cannot get a significant read off of him so I do not know how to proceed. I know it sounds lame but I am a vibe girl. If I don’t feel a strong connecting vibe I just play it cool until I have definitive proof he is feeling me.

Contrary to popular belief the guy does not always or should not always make the first move. Many men will attest to the fact there is nothing more flattering than being approached by one of us sexy ladies. There is something alluring about a woman who knpows what she wants and goes after it. As I am writing this I am thinking I should take my own advice.

Seek out my sexy mystery man because of  course as luck would have it I do not know his name. Just have to think of a creative way to get his number maybe convince him to part with that banana nut bread recipe. Maybe have him ome and demonstrate how to do it since the way I learn to cook a new dish is through visuals.

Ladies go after him and let him know you are interested. If he is smart he will take your number and get to know more about a hot girl like you. Now this hot girl is on a mission for her Hot Boy baby you got what I want.